Attract the man of your dreams by being yourself.
Since you were a little girl you may have had an idea about the man of your dreams. However, sometimes you have to date the wrong men in order to fully understand what type of guy you seek. When you are sure about the man of your dreams, your next step is to attract him and live out your wildest desires together. While you cannot control how the man of your dreams may feel about you, some things are within your control when it comes to increasing your chances of securing his attraction.
Instructions
1. Define the man of your dreams. Make a list of his qualities and characteristics. Some people have very specific things that they seek, including physical traits such as hair color, eye color, height, physique and ethnicity. Tailor your definition towards what works for you, and ignore societal influences or peer pressure from others who try to define your dream man for you.
2. Figure out where to find the man who fits your definition of a dream mate. For instance, if your dream man is of a particular ethnicity or religion, ask yourself where you can travel to or go to meet people who fit the mold. If your dream man is of Asian descent, you might travel to the Far East, join an Asian club or community center or join an Asian dating service. If the man of your dreams is of the Jewish religion, you might consider traveling to Israel or joining a synagogue. Such actions may increase your chances of meeting the man of your dreams.
3. Be open to new possibilities. Although you may think you know what the man of your dreams looks or acts like, life can throw you a curve ball. You might end up falling for someone who does not meet your original definition of the perfect guy. This is okay. A list is there to guide you, but your heart will know when someone feels right.
4. Avoid playing games with the man of your dreams. If your goal is to attract him, secure him and live happily ever after, then use a more serious approach and be real about your feelings. Game-play can delay the process, or worse, backfire completely.
5. Be yourself and enjoy getting to know someone. Emit an aura of positivity and optimism, for this is sure to attract a man. If you behave negatively, whiny or seem pessimistic, this is a good way to turn off your prospect. Be genuine and sweet -- and don't try to force or rush anything.
6. Do things together as a couple. Talk about your wildest desires, whether they include traveling, bungee jumping, going on a safari or sightseeing. See if your wildest desires match up, and how willing the two of you are to fulfill one another's dreams as a couple. Your dream man may not be up for bungee jumping, but he might be willing to try it if you agree to try snorkeling with him.
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